Genre: Memoir
Description:
“The Way of the River is a
collection of memoirs and autobiographical stories that reflect Randy Kadish's
long journey of fishing and spiritual recovery. The journey, often difficult,
often gratifying, began when he finally admitted to himself that he couldn't
communicate, and that his life had become unmanageable.”
Author:
Randy Kadish’s writing has appeared in flyfishing journals and
magazines. His stories often combine his love of fishing with people struggling
to do good while fighting their demons. Kadish’s fishing tips and more
information about his book and stories can be found on his website.
Appraisal:
Most of my life, I’ve divided books into three categories, which I’ve
read for three disparate reasons. Fiction was for entertainment. Non-fiction
was divided into the more technical, which was for learning, and those that
were biographical, to re-live things I’ve experienced in the past and to live
vicariously those I haven’t. The latter were also good for comparing the
thinking and motivations of other humans, both as a means to understand others
and to help understand myself. I’ve since realized that benefits overlap more
than my explanations would indicate, but as a broad brush definition, I think
they’re valid.
My reason for bringing this up is twofold. The first is that Randy
Kadish’s writing I’d read prior to this was fiction, yet it was one of those
exceptions, where in addition to entertainment, there was a lesson to be learned
about the human condition buried in there if you were interested. My second
thought is that, in the past (before the days of indie publishing), most
memoirs I was aware of were by someone famous (or possibly infamous). While
they might be inspirational (maybe a rags to riches story), they were also
about people who, because of that fame, were harder to relate to, even if their
name made the book more marketable.
I’ve found I can relate to the memoirs from people whose lives are
more mainstream. Kadish is much more like you or I than one of those more
famous memoirists. That Kadish and I are both male and about the same age might
help too. This book is a series of essays where he works through the things
that bother him about his life so far, regrets for choices not made and paths
not taken. Each is done against the backdrop of his avocation of flyfishing,
with his challenges on the river or stream often helping illuminate something
about his life. It resonated for me, though I’ve never cast a fly in my entire
life.
FYI:
Added for
Reprise Review: The Way of the River by Randy Kadish was a
nominee in the Memoir category for B&P 2013 Readers' Choice Awards.
Original review ran October 19, 2012
Format/Typo
Issues:
No significant issues.
Rating:
***** Five Stars
Reviewed
by: BigAl
Approximate
word count: 40-45,000 words